Praying for Your Pastor’s Wife – Day 21

Pray that your pastor’s wife will be wise in her conversations, choosing her words
carefully to encourage respect for her husband and the church, and to edify her sisters
in the Lord. Pray that she will know how to respond to gossip, and that she will always
speak with kindness and compassion.

He who guards his mouth and his tongue,
Guards his soul from troubles.  Prov 21:23

She opens her mouth in wisdom,
And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.  Prov 31:26


He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets,
But he who is trustworthy conceals a matter.  Prov 11:13

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Praying for Your Pastor’s Wife – Day 20

Ask God to remind her of the hope and refuge God offers her each day. Pray that she
will be encouraged in God, knowing that He is a firm, secure anchor for her soul.

The LORD also will be a stronghold for the oppressed,
A stronghold in times of trouble; And those who know Your name will put their trust in You, For You, O LORD, have not forsaken those who seek You.  Ps 9:9-10

Why are you in despair, O my soul? 
And why have you become disturbed within me?
Hope in God, for I shall again praise Him
For the help of His presence.  Ps 42:5

This hope we have as an anchor of the soul, a hope both sure and steadfast and one which enters within the veil, where Jesus has entered as a forerunner for us, having become a high priest forever according to the order of Melchizedek.  Heb 6:19-20

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Praying for Your Pastor’s Wife – Day 19

Pray that your pastor’s wife will use time wisely, seek God’s perspective for her
schedule and priorities, and guard against unnecessary interruptions. Pray that she will
seek and obey God’s will, rather than trying to meet everyone else’s expectations.

Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise, making the most of your time, because the days are evil.  Eph 5:15-16

Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity.  Col 4:5

So teach us to number our days, That we may present to You a heart of wisdom.  Ps 90:12

She looks well to the ways of her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness.  Prov 31:27

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Praying for Your Pastor’s Wife – Day 18

Ask God to provide for the financial needs of your pastor and his family. Pray that your
pastor’s wife will be a wise steward in caring for her family and using funds entrusted to
her care. Pray that her heart will be turned away from selfish gain and worthless things.

And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.  Phil 4:19

Make sure that your character is free from the love of money, being content with what you have; for He Himself has said, “I WILL NEVER DESERT YOU, NOR WILL I EVER FORSAKE YOU.”  Heb 13:5

But flee from these things, you man of God, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, perseverance and gentleness.  1 Tim 6:11

I have been young and now I am old,
Yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken
Or his descendants begging bread.  Ps 37:25

Incline my heart to Your testimonies
And not to dishonest gain.

Turn away my eyes from looking at vanity,
And revive me in Your ways.  Ps 119:36-37


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Praying for Your Pastor’s Wife – Day 17

Pray that your pastor’s wife will be an example of contentment, thankful for God’s
supply. Pray that her sufficiency will be in God’s abounding grace.

But godliness actually is a means of great gain when accompanied by contentment.  If we have food and covering, with these we shall be content.  1 Tim 6:6, 8

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Praying for Your Pastor’s Wife – Day 16

Pray that her children will be taught of the Lord and experience His peace. Pray that the
pressures of the ministry will not discourage or embitter them.

All your sons will be taught of the LORD;
And the well-being of your sons will be great.  Isaiah 54:13

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Praying for Your Pastor’s Wife – Day 15

Pray that she will cooperate with her husband in providing godly leadership in their
home, not based on fear of what others will think, but according to scriptural truth.  (If your pastor’s wife does not have children, pray that God will give her many “spiritual children” as she shares the truth of God’s Word.)

Children, be obedient to your parents in all things, for this is well-pleasing to the Lord.   Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart.  Col 3:20-21


Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.  Eph 6:4

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Praying for Your Pastor’s Wife – Day 14

Pray that your pastor’s wife will focus on the Word of God and walk by faith in the fear of
the Lord—rather than the fear of man. Pray that she will not seek acceptance from
others or compare herself with them, but that she will discover true freedom in her
position in Christ.

The fear of the LORD leads to life, 

So that one may sleep satisfied, untouched by evil.  Prov 19:23

Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,
But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.  Prov 31:30

Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth.  2 Tim 2:15

And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is and that He is a rewarder of those who seek Him.  Heb 11:6

And I will walk at liberty,  For I seek Your precepts.  Ps 119:45

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we would be holy and blameless before Him. In love He predestined us to adoption as sons through Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the kind intention of His will, to the praise of the glory of His grace, which He freely bestowed on us in the Beloved.   In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of His grace, which He lavished on us.  In all wisdom and insight He made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His kind intention which He purposed in Him with a view to an administration suitable to the fullness of the times, that is, the summing up of all things in Christ, things in the heavens and things on the earth. In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to His purpose who works all things after the counsel of His will, to the end that we who were the first to hope in Christ would be to the praise of His glory.  Eph 1:3-12

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Praying for Your Pastor’s Wife-Day 13

Your pastor’s wife is a busy woman. Pray that she will make wise lifestyle choices in
order to protect her health, especially in the areas of exercise, eating moderately, and
getting sufficient rest. Pray for times of relaxation and renewal to balance the stress of

Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship.  And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.  Rom 12:1-2

Therefore I run in such a way, as not without aim; I box in such a way, as not beating the air; but I discipline my body and make it my slave, so that, after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified.  1 Cor 9:26-27

Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own?  For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.  1 Cor 6:19-20

She girds herself with strength
And makes her arms strong.  Prov 31:17

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Praying for Your Pastor’s Wife-Day 12

Pray that she will be a woman of prayer and worship, and that she will lead by
example—teaching women how to walk in a close relationship with the Father.

Pray without ceasing.  1 Thess 5:17

These all with one mind were continually devoting themselves to prayer.  Acts 1:14a

In the early morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house, and went away to a secluded place, and was praying there.  Mark 1:35

Then Jesus said to him, “Go, Satan! For it is written, ‘YOU SHALL WORSHIP THE LORD YOUR GOD, AND SERVE HIM ONLY.’ ”  Matt 4:10

Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored.  Titus 2:4-5

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